nature of the crab

Probably many know the form of crabs, but not many know the nature of the crab. Hopefully you do not have a jealous nature crab.
In the Philippines, rural people loved to catch and eat crabs fields. Crabs were small in size but it's quite tasty. Crabs were easily captured at night, then put in a bowl / container, without bound.
The next day, the crabs will be boiled and then eaten for a side dish for several days. The most interesting part of this habit, the crabs will always try to get out of the basin, their utmost, by using strong claws-claws.
But a reliable crabber always calm even when the results are always trying to escape prey.
The recipe is only one, namely the hunter knew well the nature of the crab.
If there is a crab that almost escaped out of the basin, his friends would have to haul it back to the basics.
If there is more to rise rapidly to the mouth of the basin, again his friend would pull it down ... and so on until finally nothing worked out.
The next day the hunters stay boil them all, and die of envy was a flock of crab.
Similarly, in this life ... without realizing we are also sometimes be like crabs that.
That should rejoice if a friend or relative we have success we even suspect, lest that success is not achieved by bener.
Especially in business or anything else that contains an element of competition, the nature of envy, jealousy, or a hypocrite will become apparent and if not we soon realize we've unwittingly killing ourselves.
Success will come if we can realize that in business or competition is important is not who wins, but more importantly than that how far we can develop ourselves fully. If we grow, we may win or may lose in a competition, but certainly we are victorious in this life.
Sign someone is 'crab':
1. Always remember the mistakes outsiders (can be another person or situation) that is past and make it a principle / guidelines in the act
2. Many criticize but no change
3. Hobbies discuss the weaknesses of others but do not know the weaknesses of himself busy so he just pulled the crabs coming out of the bowl and forget about the escape attempt itself. .. Should crabs that mutual assistance out of the basin, but well ... it takes a great soul to do it ...
Consider how much time do you use to think of ways to be a winner. In social life, business, school, or religion. And replace that time to think about ways of developing yourself into a healthy and successful person.
No matter how much cats fight, always have lots of kittens born